This week’s questions asks

Hi Brian,

“You talked about how a man should penetrate first with his energy and emotions before penetrating physically.

I have trouble getting a feel for how a man can be grounded, relaxed, calm, but energetically penetrating at the same time. It feels to me like these two states are contradictory.

I feel like to get to this penetrating masculine energy, I have to be intense and focused. In that state, I am no longer relaxed and calm. When I’m grounded though, I feel chilled out, totally relaxed. In that relaxed state, I can’t get access to that focused masculine feeling in my body.

What am I missing?”

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