In this video, Brian discusses how true confidence with women is often misunderstood. Most men think of being vulnerable as weak, and far from confident or attractive to women, but, when it’s authentic, it’s actually the most powerful, real form of confidence there is.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in August 2016. The post has been edited while the video is in its originally published form.
If you’re just starting out on building your confidence with women and dating, make sure you have some understanding and practice with creating sexual tension first and start here: Sexual Tension and Confident vs Needy Men | Inside FEARLESS #1
But if you’ve already got some understanding and real-life practice and skills with sexual tension and talking to women, then this is a huge key to taking wherever you’re at to the next level and attracting and connecting with women deeply and consistently:
Vulnerability. It’s often misunderstood – especially by men…and ESPECIALLY in relation to being confident with and attractive to women – as weakness. Something to hide or “deal with” privately. Certainly not something to aid in building strong and/or sexual connections with women, or feeling confident in general.
But true vulnerability is actually the deepest confidence – and one of the most attractive traits to women – that there is. It’s authenticity – being real. Not being afraid to share vulnerable things with women is a sign of extreme confidence, and it’s thus extremely attractive to women. There is nothing more confident than being yourself and opening up to her without the need for her to like you or the fear of her seeing you as “weak.”
An insecure man wouldn’t share things he feels vulnerable about. A truly, rock-solidly confident guy who really feels secure in himself, doesn’t need anyone to like or validate him, and is ok with rejection, wouldn’t hide things he feels vulnerable about.
The key is it has to come from a real, non-needy, non-validation seeking place. Otherwise it’s not true vulnerability. That’s why people often think vulnerability is weakness.
That’s what this video is about – real vulnerability, what it looks like, and how to use it to be massively attractive and confident with women and people in general.
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