I talk about why a viewer is only attracting women he’s not into in this video, and how he can start being more attractive to women he’s actually attracted to.

Attracting women you’re not into is a common problem for men. It’s usually because you’re acting differently around the women you really want vs the girls you’re not attracted to. If you experience this often, you’re probably comfortable being free, relaxed, and confident with the women you’re not attracted to because you’re not worried about getting them to like you. You’re being real with them and that makes you attractive.

But when you get around women you really like, you get nervous and attached to outcome. You may be trying too hard to get them to like you, trying to figure out “who to be” to get them to like you instead of just being yourself, and walling off emotionally.

Can you see how this is like two very different men?