How to Get Over Shyness and Be More Expressive

In this video, Brian gives you exercises to get more comfortable with being more expressive and "being seen" to help you get over shyness...

How Do I Be Confident Without Being Cocky?

"How do I be confident without being cocky?" is a common concern for men, so in this video and post, I talk about the...

Giving Up Security & Comfort Can Propel You to Finacial Freedom

That financial freedom and success in your goals, dreams, and dream career...and the overall lifestyle you say you want...how serious are you about making...

6 Reasons Why Women Don’t “Tell us, in words” Why They’re...

We see a lot of men - both at our events and on our YouTube channel and other social media - complain about women...

How to Meet Women in a New City

In this video, I answer a viewer question on how to meet women in a new city, and give you some tips and things...

Uncommon Tips for How to Be a Better Public Speaker

In this video, I answer a viewer question about how to be a better public speaker and give you some tips that I use...

Why Do Women Get Bored with Me on Dates?

In this video, I answer a viewer question many men have: Why do women get bored with me on dates? This week's question comes from...

“State Pumping” into Anger – Is it Healthy to get Angry?

Is it healthy to get angry to get out of depression or a funk? In this video, I answer a viewer question on "state...

Do You Need To Be Good Looking or Rich to Get...

  In this video, I answer a viewer's question: Do you need to be good looking or rich to get women? This week's question comes from...

Dealing with Nervousness Around Women – How to “Own It”

A key to dealing with nervousness around women and all your fears and insecurities when meeting and talking to them is to "own" that nervousness and...

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Using Childhood Trauma to Become a Self-Made Man

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLRa6l24yD8&t=1s A lot of self-made men were not made by ambition. They were made by fear. Look closely at the most disciplined, high-performing men you know. Many...

Why Success Without Struggle Creates Self-Doubt

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaYFDf9OAJo Some men don’t doubt themselves because they failed. They doubt themselves because nothing ever demanded proof. No chaos. No hunger. No real risk. Just a smooth...

Masculinity as the Gift in Dating

If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or quietly humiliating, it is not because you are doing too little. It is because you are trying to...

Why More People Are Quietly Having the Same Shift as Emily Saves America

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTRRLVVUPuY Most cultural shifts do not start with protests, podcasts, or public figures. They start in silence. They start when someone notices that what they are being...

When Your Mind Waits for Permission to Quit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_h0ZQqkwls Most men don’t quit at the moment of maximum pain. They quit in the pause. The breath after the argument. The morning after the workout streak breaks. The...