A little cockiness can spark attraction and connection with women, but most guys don’t know how to be cocky in a good way and they end up killing attraction.
This video is part 2 of 3 videos on the subtle behaviors that can ruin and kill attraction.
Watch Part 1 here.
Watch Part 3: How to Touch a Woman Without Being Creepy
Cockiness isn’t necessarily a bad thing – it can be a fun part of flirting with women. The problem is many men don’t know how to be cocky in a good way and end up overdoing it.
If a woman is naturally very sweet and open, cockiness may push her away very quickly. If a woman is insecure or you’re a very good-looking guy, being very cocky may push her away. (The better looking you are, the more careful you have to be about being too cocky.) When men come off as overly cocky, it tends to make women run away or shut down emotionally.
In the video, Brian gives you a baseline demonstration of what being open vs more cocky looks like. Being open by itself is powerful because that’s where a warm connection and her being able to feel you out and trust you can come from. But playing with a little cockiness is one way of adding some edginess to your interactions and sparking some chemistry. It makes things fun and a little more flirtatious.
Brian demonstrates what the changes look like for the camera, but remember its the feeling inside you that’s much more important, powerful, and effective than trying to mimic body language.
Brian and Aria, a FEARLESS model, then discuss how Aria and other women handle cockiness, how to be cocky in a good way, what’s too much, and when to drop the cockiness and get more vulnerable.
