In this clip from one of our seminars, Brian talks about how your entire reality – and the people in it – changes as your subcommunication changes. Everything you “KNOW” about life and people can change.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in June 2019.
As Brian talks about in the video, you’re telling people how to treat you all the time with your subcommunication – from subtleties of how you hold yourself and your tone of voice to even fraction-of-a-second things like microexpressions. And these things are driven by your true, deep down emotions, how you feel in the moment, and how you feel about yourself.
The more you become aware of this stuff and work on it, the deeper and subtler you realize it all goes. And even tiny shifts can affect how you see the world and how people, life, and the world relates to you.
Your view of people, life, and the world is very colored by your self-awareness and where you’re at as a person, a man, and your personal development. So something that seems so for-sure true to you (for example: how women are or what they really are attracted to and respond to) could well change – even 180-degrees – as you work on yourself, your connection skills, and start to understand everything going on underneath the surface of your own emotions, thoughts, and beliefs, as well as learning subtlties of connection and what makes people tick.
Quite often, we get new clients and fans who swear women only want looks, money, status, etc…and yet we and everyone who commits to working on themselves with us or through our teachings has a completely different reality about and relationship with women. That’s because of both self-awareness as well as working on yourself that shifts how you feel about yourself and thus attracts completely different types of women.
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