When it comes to approaching women, men often make mistakes that ruin their chances by killing female attraction. Men who struggle with women often have a hard time talking to women either because they are being analytical, can’t read social cues, or flat out try to force conversations.

This, unfortunately, ends up making them come off as being boring, creepy, annoying, or just plain weird. This is why most guys ruin their chances to get a date with a girl they like, and, often, start losing confidence.

In this video, I address how to take your game from another average Joe to “oh my God, he just gets me!”

1:00 Things that destroys being attractive

14:20 Learning to face your nervous system

17:30 Why approaching women is scary?

19:20 Tips on releasing neck tension

22:00 How to not feel like a total b*tch talking to women?

27:10 An example of saying the wrong things and making it work.

35:10 An example of learned helplessness

39:50 As a woman, how do you know if a man deserves a chance to date?

45:50 How to work on your direct approach when it does not work out the way you wanted

54:20 What do you do when you feel incongruence within the body?

1:00:05 How to balance embodiment with your back and front

1:01:50 How to stop feeling inferior?

1:06:50 (End) How to be attractive

It’s not as hard as you might think to be that guy. As long as you make some adjustments and stick with it from a place of choice (vs “Have to”), you’ll start to change your dead-end interactions with women to ones where they want more of you.