Are women gold diggers? In this video, I’ll discuss why many men are convinced women are all gold diggers, what’s going on if your real-life experience is that women are gold diggers, and what the key is to find and attract high quality women who like you regardless of your money.
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For the most part, no, women aren’t gold diggers. I have clients who have been great with women even in the midst of financial struggles.
When I was younger and totally hopeless with women, I had a roommate who was fresh out of jail, no job, no money…and he brought women home night after night.
Another man I know, Jason, lived in a van for a while and had a blast bringing women back to his van. Because he owned it. He wasn’t ashamed of it, and his confidence, charisma, and authenticity shone through. My business parter at FEARLESS, Dave, did the same thing.
It’s not your money (or your looks, for that matter) – it’s who you’re being and your personality as a man. I talk about that more in the video, but if you’re new to the site, this is a good video to check out: What REALLY Makes You Attractive to Women – Misunderstood Subtleties
What you focus on expands. So if you believe all women are gold diggers, your mind will be attuned to picking out all the women who have gold digger qualities or tendencies to prove your belief, while you miss all the ones who aren’t. I talk about this more in the video.
So are women gold diggers?
Yes, there are gold diggers out there. But they are the exception to the rule. And often, if the women who really are gold diggers are dating a guy just for his money and he’s not also solid as a man, the gold digger will have another more solid guy on the side who they actually like for his personality, confidence, and masculinity. They might even use their sugar daddy’s money to take care of the guy they like!
Enjoy the video, and then check out some of the related videos and blog posts below.
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